{DatingDisasters} Part 2

 

Hi guys! Happy Tuesday! How has your week been so far ??

Today is Part 2 of my Spooky Stories Dating Disasters series. As I mentioned before, as a single mom I have dated quite a few weird narcissistic guys along the way - and today I bring you one of the creepiest stories.

Mister A swept me off my feet 6 years ago. He was a normal guy that was super sweet and caring. Honestly - he is marriage material and if I do ever get married I can totally picture myself with someone like him. The kiddo adores him as well. I think it's one of the main reasons my heart instantly fell for him- deep down I knew he was everything I ever wanted and more. While everyone was dreaming of getting married one day and starting a family and loving one person forever - I never had that vision for myself. That was until Mr A. If there was ever a reason to believe in soulmates - he was it. 

The first year went pretty well ... until one day he changed and completely started ignoring me. He would always claim he was busy playing computer games / had to take his mom to the clinic, had to cut grass - but he was totally thinking of me even though he forgot about my assistance. A few weeks later he admitted he had sleep paralysis and was seeing an evil spirit haunt him at night. 

Then he got "better" again - he was his normal self again for a bit. Then he would have another relapse with the evil spirit that is haunting him.

We have always been on and off again ... and just after I decided the guy from my previous story needs to be cut off completely - I agreed to work things out with mister A. After all - I can learn to look past his flaws. We were supposed to meet up for coffee - and then suddenly the day before he sent me a message that he is "sick" and have to cancel. Weeks went by without hardly a word from him. Then suddenly I got a message he is at the church close by my place .. which was out of the blue. Eventually, he later admitted that an evil spirit is with him at all times - and is haunting all his thoughts. Being the supportive person I am - I tried to be there for him and invite him over as much as possible. Which was torture on me trying to love someone while he was like this. One night we had a huge blow out which left me in tears, and he just sat there drinking his coffee like nothing happened. The next day he even sent me a message to say can he see me again that night? Like WTF dude!

lt was honestly the most exhausting week trying to be there for him and supporting him, until the Friday when he out of the blue said he was having a fight with his mom and he wants us to move in together because this will be good for both of us. Of course, I let him down gently - you can't be like this towards a person and expect them to move in with you. He zones out completely when I talk to him at stages too ... making it extremely hard on me to try and move forward with him. That hurts the most if I'm completely honest.

He is still fighting this evil spirit, and even though I do love him - I'm not sure can let this craziness into my life at this stage even though I so badly want to. If I only had one wish in the world it would be that he returns to normal. Deep down I know I would marry him instantly if that ever happens. 

Have you dated someone that had issues like this  ??